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The Frequency of Bare Skin: What a Swimsuit Reveals Beneath the Surface

Woman in a black one-piece swimsuit stands outdoors with hands clasped, sunlit beach or poolside background, calm expression

This morning, I awoke very early to a message from my higher self about the direction I need to take in sharing this work with you.


You see, my relationship with social media is funny: it feels like connection, but if I’m not genuinely showing up as me, it feels fake. I’ve never liked rules or boxes, which is funny because that is exactly what Instagram is all about. Until we are all telepathically communicating, I have to befriend the platform to connect with genuine people like you who speak my language.


Frequency is really my favourite language, and I could sit with my thoughts and the exciting downloads I receive for hours without feeling like I was missing out or needed to prove myself. It is a wonderful way to live, and I have spent many years looking for clues on how to disconnect from a program I knew, with every inch of my being, wasn’t permanent.


But the truth is that a strong frequency is also guiding me to share what I know with others who are finding this beautiful balance in their own life, and that is where my dilemma hangs in this moment, as I work this puzzle out too. The irony is that my message is about realising the physical and the spiritual are one. Can you see why I find this so funny?


Yesterday I had an experience that highlighted the importance of vulnerability, but I don’t think we should think about it the way we usually do. For this story, I’ll use that word because it best explains what happened after I walked into a swimwear store and spoke to the assistant about a new swimsuit.

I’ve never had trouble finding or buying clothes that fit me, and for that I am very grateful, because I understand the real struggles people have with their bodies after spending a decade as a personal stylist. However, I’ve never really felt confident showing it off in public. Bikinis, bathers, short revealing dresses, and plunging necklines are definitely not me, so when the assistant asked what I was looking for, I really didn’t know what to say other than, “I don’t know.”


I did what I always do before trying something on: I pictured myself in it, how I’d wear it, when I’d wear it, and what I’d wear it with, but I just couldn’t see myself in any of the options she pointed out. Clothing shopping for me is usually fun and ends with at least a few pieces that I know I’ll love and wear for many years to come, but I left the store empty-handed, not even brave enough to try a single swimsuit on, and this got me thinking about fashion wellness and my own block that I was still yet to master.


So I peeled it back, like I always do with anything that feels like an obstacle in my thought pattern, and asked myself two simple questions. What does this piece of clothing represent on an emotional level, and how would it relate to how I behave or show up in my physical life? Just two simple questions that my wardrobe will always provide me with deeper insight into the faulty pattern I have running that needs correcting.


Now I mentioned vulnerability as one of the things I’m finding challenging to do online, so it was no surprise that the swimsuit experience was my higher self guiding me toward the physical answer. There is no separation; what you think, feel, and believe is exactly what you will experience. Energy never lies!! So there it was: I had a problem with being vulnerable, which was holding me back and making me confused about sharing what I knew with others.


Once you know what you believe that isn’t working, you can’t unknow it. This is where you need to ask yourself the third question: what do I want to believe about vulnerability instead?


So that’s exactly what I am going to do now, and as soon as I work it out, you will be seeing a lot more of me (maybe even in my swimsuit)!


The Frequency of Bare Skin: What a Swimsuit Reveals Beneath the Surface


Love Claie.




If you want to learn more about your own unique frequency, explore the Frequency Blueprint, created to help you reveal what you can't see, and create a map that helps you navigate life with ease and clarity. https://www.claie.com.au/frequencyblueprint






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